Is It Worth It?

Everybody want love but no one wants to wait. Why is that? Why we so in a rush to have or be with someone? I'm telling you from experience, it's worth the wait . I'm still single but who says this will be forever. It's so many out here that jump into relationships for the wrong reasons and it becomes so toxic. Sometimes you have to think is it worth settling or time spent. God allows people to come in your life for learning experiences. It's good to learn and grow from any relationship you have. There can be hurt, trust issues or cheating but I promise it build you . When you go through things like that , you have to look at it like that. That's why it's so important before you enter a relationship that you are mentally and physically there.  You can't love anyone if you don't love yourself. It starts with you ... It's so important that you don't make your significant other main priority in your life . Once you do that it goes down hill. Love yourself and trust yourself that the decision you making won't break you or overtake you.. You can love someone a lot and still put yourself first because when you don't, things you once stood for become overlooked and you lose yourself. So don't rush ..it will come with time but first ask yourself are you together?!
We reside in a generation where the mentality "if he/or she won't, another one will." & this very toxic way of thinking  is why most people are on their third or fourth (some more) publicity promoted social network relationship . Failing to realize that if the options are eliminated that then makes room for one on one attention. To cohesively grow and build together. To perfectly blend and one another's imperfections. It's called working it out. It's called longevity and one day marriage, creating an everlasting union til death do you both apart. If y'all can't do that now what make you think it will last in the long run? It should never be that easy if you really love someone. Can't keep bouncing around all your life. Patience is a virtue .